Know yourself.
Know your partner.
Find where you meet.
Every couple has unexplored territory.
Desire Map is a private couples tool built on a 318-item intimacy inventory. You and your partner each rate independently — then see exactly where your desires align, where there's room to explore, and where you're already in sync.
Free · Takes ~15–45 min · Requires account · 18+ content
How it works
Three steps. One honest conversation.
Rate independently
You and your partner each complete the map on your own — 318 activities across 23 categories, from relationships to bondage. Your answers stay private until both of you finish.
Invite your partner
As soon as you start, you can share a private invite link. Your partner creates their own account and completes their map at their own pace. No peeking.
See your Desire Map
Once both maps are complete, your results unlock together. You'll see where you align, what's worth a conversation, and where you're already clear — visualized as an overlaid radar chart.
What's covered
23 categories. 318 items.
From everyday intimacy preferences to advanced kink — the full spectrum, organized so you can move through it comfortably.
The Report
Every couple has unexplored territory.
When both maps are complete, your results unlock together. You'll see an overlaid radar chart showing both your desire profiles, an alignment percentage, and four clear zones: what you're both enthusiastic about, what's worth exploring, what you both want to skip, and specific recommendations.
Start free →Your Alignment
How often you feel exactly the same way — across all 8 rating levels.
Desire Map
Overlaid radar chart showing your profiles across all 23 categories.
Shared Enthusiasm
Activities you're both into — the ones to plan around.
Worth Exploring
Items where one of you is curious — the conversation starters.
Free · Private · No spam
Ready to see where you align?
Create a free account to start your map. Your answers are private until your partner completes theirs.
Start your Desire Map →18+ content · Free forever · Requires account